2 Ways to Stop Your Negative Thoughts From Sucking the Life Out of You

One of the greatest powers we have is the worthiness to have thoughts. Yes, sometimes those thoughts wilt negative or detrimental and they don’t serve us, but sometimes those thoughts are empowering and can take us anywhere. But have you overly asked yourself where your thoughts come from?

Most of our thoughts are self-created; in other words, they come from us. We can learn something or hear something or see something, but everything that happens without that is created by you. Why that’s so important to understand is considering your thoughts are your greatest superpowers, and you have the worthiness to make them your trusted advisors instead of your biggest critics.

If you are the tragedian of most of your thoughts, that gives you the power to create ones that serve you…if you segregate to. Thoughts are choices, and the choices we make determine how we feel, how we sound, what we pursue in life, what we don’t pursue in life, whether we’re healthy, whether we’re not healthy, and whether we requite unrepealable things a try or never try them. 

Those choices are the key ingredients to our self-confidence, our self-esteem, and our self-worth. Other people don’t create any of those things for us. Ever! We create it all, and if your life isn’t where you would like it to be, you can uncork making it variegated by using that superpower in ways that serve you.

Start with self-awareness

Example #1:

Do you have thoughts in your throne that are undisciplined to what people have told you over the years? For example, maybe you’re a good versifier and people have told you over the years you’re a really good painter or that you yank so well. But when they say, “You’re a really good artist,” your response is always, “Really? You think so?” or “No, I’m not that good.”

What you’re thinking or choosing to believe is the word-for-word opposite of what everyone else is telling you. That’s a problem. If you hear multiple people telling you that you are good at something (especially when they don’t have to), uncork to believe them instead of your dismissive thoughts.

Example #2:

Do you have thoughts in your throne well-nigh something someone said to you one time, years ago, that you’ve spent the last several years telling yourself over and over and over? For example, maybe you were at a merchantry event and you tripped and a coworker said, “You’re such a klutz.” From that day forward, you became uneaten super shielding considering you were so embarrassed by tripping that you took on that one thing that one coworker said in a moment when maybe it was true for a second, but you’ve been so shielding and cautious since considering you constantly are reminding yourself, “Don’t be a  klutz. Don’t fall lanugo or trip. Don’t embarrass yourself.”

It was a one-time event that you could have laughed off in the moment and said, “Yep, the gravity is really strong right there!” Chances are, it would have been forgotten by all as soon as the conversation went to the next topic. Instead, it was a nomination to take on the identity of a klutz for years without the event, and that has unfurled to stupefy your behavior, making you uncomfortable in merchantry situations.

“Your beliefs, either positive or negative, helpful or hurtful, largely determine everything you do and how you do it.” – Brian Tracy

The first step to using this superpower is to take out your head-trash

Sit lanugo and do a thought inventory. Just like you would do in a warehouse full of crap, it’s time to declutter your thoughts. Beginning today, really start paying sustentation to your thoughts. Which ones are reoccurring? Write them lanugo and make a list. As you start to notice the thoughts that come into your throne regularly, ask yourself, “Where did those thoughts come from?”

As you discover thoughts during your excavation that are completely made up and have zero validity, purge them. How do you do that? Use these two tools:

Tool #1 – Unclose it’s not real.

Say to yourself out loud, “That’s a ridiculous thought, considering it’s not true!”

Simply unclose to yourself that it’s not real; it’s completely made up and a lie. Remind yourself that the reason you have that thought over and over is considering you’ve created a habit. The increasingly you say to yourself, “That’s not true,” when the thought pops up, the quicker it fades yonder considering you’ve replaced it with something that stops it in its tracks.

That doesn’t midpoint you have to get all Pollyanna well-nigh your life, but rather to wilt increasingly well-turned with your thoughts. Chances are, if you’re a negative self-talker or a negative thinker, you never requite yourself the whole story; you only requite yourself half the story. I undeniability this the ‘partly cloudy, partly sunny approach.’ When a weather forecaster says it’s going to be partly cloudy, she is moreover saying it’s going to be partly sunny because, in order for one or the other to happen, both have to be present! If you’re a pessimist or a negative thinker, you will unchangingly be looking at the partly cloudy side of everything (“yeah, but…”) and you will miss the fact that it’s moreover partly sunny.

People who are lattermost positive thinkers have the same problem, as they only segregate to see everything as partly sunny and miss the partly cloudy, which sometimes includes challenges that need to be faced. But negative thinking is often increasingly detrimental than positive thinking is, so we’ll stick to the topic at hand. You’re unliable to protract choosing to squint at partly cloudy, however get in the habit of moreover seeing the partly sunny side. If you only have half the story, you don’t have the story.

This simply ways that every time you mutter well-nigh something or think ‘that can’t happen,’ flip to the other side and see the whole picture by thinking, ‘If it could happen, what would that squint like?’ or ‘Maybe it can’t, but maybe it can.’ Give yourself a endangerment to see the possibilities or the other side of the negative thought you’re having, considering it’s unchangingly there! There’s unchangingly flipside side. Using this tool will help you to get out of the negative-thinking slum a lot faster.

You are the tragedian of your thoughts.

Just considering you have a thought doesn’t midpoint you have to listen to it or believe it. Which ones you segregate to listen to and believe is your choice. As the tragedian of your thoughts, you can make choices as to which ones you’re going to pension and which you’re going to edit out. Listening to too many negative, made up, or untrue thoughts will never requite you a positive outcome in your life. However, by getting in the habit of seeing both sides, and choosing which thoughts are keepers and which are head-trash, is up to you and will transpiration your life.

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